The CHOLAs Chorus – free & random thoughts!!!

Of Crying Wolves and Crocodile Tears

It’s rush hour. Amid the hustle and bustle an elderly woman squeezes in, utters “ladies first” rather condescendingly, and then haughtily slips past all. I retract my steps, sit back on a bench and doze off. I’m dreaming, and in my dream I’m chatting about gender equality with my alter ego. I go first, and ask: “Are women crying wolf as and when they talk about gender equality, and lack of it?” Admittedly, there are some religious and/or spiritual and customary dos and don’ts that put or rather seem to put the fair sex at a disadvantage. Some are religious or spiritual features, others traditional or customary remnants that distinguish us. Otherwise, I’ve not evolved enough to notice any chains that shackle women from realizing their potentials. The glass ceiling fell and broke at the turn of the century. Splinters lying around are transparent and translucent. (more…)

All Because of the Hole?

All because of the hole the pole goes unruly and awry. “Ah, they rhyme, don’t they?” he asks laughingly. “What? It’s not funny – don’t laugh!” I warn him. Bees fly from far and wide and flock to the flowers to collect nectar. “And that’s alliteration,” he barges in again. He’s only being humorous so I brushed off nonchalantly. Some do not fly back but their wings flutter; they are trapped in the petals and dead. Who would you blame: the killer petals or the killed bees? ‘Disabled 17-year-old raped’, read a Kuensel headline dated 06 June 2010. Once again! (more…)

A chicken-and-egg situation

On a fateful day she catches her husband with his trousers down. He is in a compromising position with other woman. Who else could the other woman be? She is their next-door neighbour. She is benumbed with horror. It’s daytime and entirely unexpected. Crazed with anger and disbelief, a heated argument ensues instantly. It’s been years since they lived next door to each other. That’s why it’s ironic that this is a first accidental red-handed discovery. But worryingly this is also the tip of the iceberg for her. A conjugal bombshell it’s, indeed. (more…)