The CHOLAs Chorus – free & random thoughts!!!

Cosmetically Modified homo sapiens

‘Beauty is only skin deep’. If looks are not more important than character, today’s reality is well-nigh diametrically opposite. Or they are equally important at least. The skin is getting deeper, thicker and colourful day by day. If we are how we were not born as, we are certainly not who and what we were born like – with the exception of puberty, of course. Our skin is a chameleon. (more…)

Our Orwellian World

Who would have attached credence to the pessimistic prediction of George Orwell’s apocalyptic world at a time when all seemed weary of the last two wars? Everybody was a doubting Thomas. Before their eyes lay the physical remnants of the great wars, sticking out like a sore thumb. Heavy on hearts rested the painful memories of the past that simply wouldn’t fade. (more…)

The Dawn – A Flight of Fancy

I’m not a misogynist; nor am I a macho man. My marital status is not a testimony to either. I am a New Man. I take pride in the fact that I am a citizen of a nation where gender equality is not much of a talking point for good reason. (more…)

An Ambient Journey

It was a memory from a dim and distant past: an old bus bumping its way up a winding road. In those days, Bhutan was in an embryonic stage and buses were few and far between. She was a tall and slim blonde American and the bus, a rickety tin box on wheels. (more…)

Road to Perdition

I recall reading in Kuensel a few months back about a female civil employee’s decision to walk to office as she found it too disturbing to drive around. Nothing could be closer to this. With time I am getting perfectly rounded in my conviction that there are certain things that we Bhutanese simply cannot be trusted with, and getting behind the wheels is one that invariably tops my list. If our driving ethics (if there is anything ethical about it in the first place!) is any indication of our inner selves, we are a doomed lot -  short of the basic rudiments of a civilized order!

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Sexual equality beyond gender equality: soul-searching of a social stigma

Today gender equality is an occasional talking point everywhere. There are women’s movements, and the thrust of all women’s movements is female emancipation. Feminism is heartening. Both genders like to talk about gender equality – one gender feels there is, the other feels there isn’t. But something is seriously amiss. I think we talk a lot about the shell and totally forget about the kernel. I do not know for sure if we actually forget or simply do not want to talk about the kernel. (more…)

The Sentinel

The night was cold and windy. Everybody was in blissful oblivion of deep slumber except for 16- year- old Thinley who tossed and turned in a vain attempt to sleep. He could hear the wind whistling through the leaves of the massive peach tree in front of his dilapidated mansion. In the lulls between the gusts, he could hear the leaves drop from the oak trees on that mid-November night in Bumthang. Somewhere in the night an owl hooted.

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Lucky, by default or by design?

Arguably it is neither untimely nor out of place to paraphrase what Shakespeare had said about greatness in Twelfth Night. Some are born lucky, some achieve luck and some have luck thrust upon them. A stroke of luck is not only a rarity but seldom timely as well. Luck is not discriminatory to boot. Contrary to this, it is not uncommon that more often than not fortune smiles on some and frowns on others. (more…)

A chicken-and-egg situation

On a fateful day she catches her husband with his trousers down. He is in a compromising position with other woman. Who else could the other woman be? She is their next-door neighbour. She is benumbed with horror. It’s daytime and entirely unexpected. Crazed with anger and disbelief, a heated argument ensues instantly. It’s been years since they lived next door to each other. That’s why it’s ironic that this is a first accidental red-handed discovery. But worryingly this is also the tip of the iceberg for her. A conjugal bombshell it’s, indeed. (more…)